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So you want to film you and your lady doing the nasty, huh, Spielberg? It’s a big step in a relationship, and definitely not as simple as recording and capturing your next romp in the sheets. How do you talk your girl into it? How will you set it up?
You better read on because you’re about to enter erotic film school with this article. By the time you’re done, you’ll be able to capture your most intimate moments on video — with her eager consent.
__________getting her to agree to it
One way to convince her to have sex on film is to drop very subtle hints and make her think that she came up with the idea. For instance, you could comment on what a jerk Rick Solomon was for releasing Paris Hilton’s video romp and mention how you would never dream of doing that if you two made a movie. Let her connect the dots.
Another way to persuade her is by making it seem innocent, unplanned and spontaneous. Just casually have a video camera handy, drink a couple of glasses of wine together and see if she goes for your proposition. If she says “no,” then don’t push her on it. Just let the idea take root in her mind and she might eventually come around.
Essentially, to make this happen, you must convince her of two things:
1- No one else will ever see it
2- She won’t look bad on camera
__________make her come around
Her possible objections could be the result anything from a negative body image to an overall hatred of porn. Here’s how to respond to them.
If she says: “You’re a pervert!”
You say: “I’m just trying to explore your kinky side with you and it will be intensely fun, not gross.”
Is she says: “I’m gonna look fat.”
You say: Reassure her that she’s beautiful and you’re turned on by everything about her body. Offer to re-shoot the video if she’s unhappy with the way she looks. Hey, that will even give you a second chance to film her in bed.
If she says: “You will show your friends.”
You say: “Are you crazy? I would never dream of doing that, and besides I wouldn’t want my buds to see my pecker.”
__________choose your equipment
First, you must choose your camcorder. Digital is excellent quality that won’t deteriorate, but it’s easily copied and can be distributed limitlessly on the Internet. If decide on a digital camera, make sure you have enough memory and battery life. You don’t want to find yourself needing a replacement battery or memory card in the middle of the production.
Lighting is also vital, but simpler to handle. Use ceiling-lit lamps to provide decent, low-impact lighting. Don’t use night vision, like in the Paris Hilton video. It’s not aesthetically advantageous for the woman (her breasts won’t look as good).
__________get the right angle
Now a few words about angle and perspective. “First-person” view is when you hold the camera and just film her, like most of the Tommy Lee and Pam Anderson video. This hides your face from being seen and focuses most of the attention on her, a good choice if you fancy a career in politics someday. And let’s face it, as men, we’re not really interested in seeing ourselves naked anyway.
If you can’t deal with shaky camera handheld work, a tripod can’t be beat. You certainly don’t want your sex tape to give you motion sickness.
And if it won’t kill the mood, do some test shots first to figure out which angle makes her look best. Now’s the time to apply the “knowledge” you’ve learned from all the porn you’ve watched in your life.
__________how to make the video hot
Sex scenes are always hotter when the woman interacts with the camera. Get her to talk about what she likes sexually during the video. Get her to open up a little bit, have some fun. Also get her to make eye contact with the camera. There is no greater turn-on than a sexy woman staring right into your eyes (even if it’s on a TV screen).
Get her to dress up in a sexy outfit and strip for the camera. If she’s up for it, it’ll add heightened anticipation and excitement to the experience.
Try to give her an orgasm on-screen. If she is at all nervous or embarrassed about being filmed, this could be more difficult than normal. Just take it slow and do your best to make her comfortable and it should happen.
__________avoid the wrong hands
Showing your new creation to your buddies might be tempting, but it’s extremely unwise. If your friends even find out you have a private video, one of them may betray you and search for it at some point.
Here are some safety tips you can follow, which will also serve to ease her mind on the matter:
# Keep the original (and only) copy of the video
# Store it in a safe place that’s mutually accessible, so she feels in control
# Agree that if you break up, you’ll destroy the video together
__________the new national pastime
It seems everyone who’s anyone has made a very public, amateur adult video these days. With big-name celebrities like Paris Hilton, Pam & Tommy, Vince Neil, and even Fred Durst appearing in bootleg triple X-capades, it’s no wonder couples are filming their most private moments more often than ever.
But unlike them, your video is going to be for your eyes only, and you won’t cash in on it. Unless that’s what you both want…
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